1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:00,000 2 00:00:06,440 --> 00:00:08,607 Yeah , specifically when we're talking 3 00:00:08,607 --> 00:00:10,162 about marriage is obviously 4 00:00:10,162 --> 00:00:12,218 communication is probably the number 5 00:00:12,218 --> 00:00:14,273 one thing that we talk about . # one 6 00:00:14,273 --> 00:00:16,273 theme , other issues . Infidelity , 7 00:00:16,273 --> 00:00:18,329 infidelity sadly is the case that we 8 00:00:18,329 --> 00:00:20,162 deal with a marriage . And we're 9 00:00:20,162 --> 00:00:22,329 talking about marriages with financial 10 00:00:22,329 --> 00:00:24,496 stress is also another issue . I got a 11 00:00:24,496 --> 00:00:26,329 lot of families are dealing with 12 00:00:26,329 --> 00:00:28,496 parenting . So just the whole gamut of 13 00:00:28,496 --> 00:00:27,290 issues , 14 00:00:33,540 --> 00:00:35,762 Well this is just a one day course . So 15 00:00:35,762 --> 00:00:37,984 you're looking 92 , we're trying to get 16 00:00:37,984 --> 00:00:41,760 people out of escape from Duty Day and 17 00:00:41,920 --> 00:00:44,031 just in the middle of the week , just 18 00:00:44,140 --> 00:00:46,270 just a quick little jolt in the arm 19 00:00:46,270 --> 00:00:48,130 kind of provide them additional 20 00:00:48,130 --> 00:00:50,241 resources , provide them some tools , 21 00:00:50,540 --> 00:00:53,280 provide them some time to look at each 22 00:00:53,280 --> 00:00:55,391 other to talk to one another to learn 23 00:00:55,391 --> 00:00:57,502 about each other . You can't fix your 24 00:00:57,502 --> 00:00:57,360 marriage in one day . 25 00:01:05,240 --> 00:01:07,820 I think if we get tune ups for our cars 26 00:01:07,830 --> 00:01:09,774 or if we have to go get our annual 27 00:01:09,774 --> 00:01:11,830 health checkup , it's always good to 28 00:01:11,830 --> 00:01:13,941 look under the hood , what's going on 29 00:01:13,941 --> 00:01:16,108 with our marriages , our relationships 30 00:01:16,108 --> 00:01:18,330 because a wise person once said society 31 00:01:18,330 --> 00:01:20,219 begins in the home and definitely 32 00:01:20,219 --> 00:01:22,441 marriages and strong marriages keep the 33 00:01:22,441 --> 00:01:24,880 home strong . I think with the 34 00:01:24,890 --> 00:01:27,290 personality test is really helpful . 35 00:01:27,300 --> 00:01:29,610 And so even though we don't normally 36 00:01:29,610 --> 00:01:31,777 have issues , you know , as we go into 37 00:01:31,777 --> 00:01:33,990 um , the next adventures in our life , 38 00:01:34,000 --> 00:01:36,167 um , you know , we're making decisions 39 00:01:36,167 --> 00:01:38,389 about where we want to live and what we 40 00:01:38,389 --> 00:01:40,680 want to do um , in the future . Uh , 41 00:01:40,690 --> 00:01:42,801 you know , we may come up to conflict 42 00:01:42,801 --> 00:01:44,746 and we're gonna be able to use the 43 00:01:44,746 --> 00:01:47,190 things we've learned here today to work 44 00:01:47,190 --> 00:01:49,134 through those things . It's always 45 00:01:49,134 --> 00:01:51,460 helpful to know what the other person's 46 00:01:51,470 --> 00:01:54,120 strengths and weaknesses and it helps 47 00:01:54,120 --> 00:01:55,787 to keep communication alive . 48 00:01:58,540 --> 00:02:01,660 Mhm , mm hmm . 49 00:02:03,940 --> 00:02:06,051 The chaplain corps were not just here 50 00:02:06,051 --> 00:02:07,940 for emergencies or crisis , We're 51 00:02:07,940 --> 00:02:09,996 trying to get ahead of the curve and 52 00:02:09,996 --> 00:02:12,218 hopefully it becomes a routine thing as 53 00:02:12,218 --> 00:02:12,180 part of our lives , not just something 54 00:02:12,180 --> 00:02:14,347 where we just , we need a , you know , 55 00:02:14,347 --> 00:02:16,402 a lifeline . So I'd say the chaplain 56 00:02:16,402 --> 00:02:18,402 corps is a group of people that are 57 00:02:18,402 --> 00:02:20,569 really just trying to journey with you 58 00:02:20,569 --> 00:02:22,791 wherever you are , whether , you know , 59 00:02:22,791 --> 00:02:25,013 cradle to grave is what we say , cradle 60 00:02:25,013 --> 00:02:26,847 to grave . And so hopefully that 61 00:02:26,847 --> 00:02:28,847 perception of the stigma of getting 62 00:02:28,847 --> 00:02:30,902 home wouldn't look like that because 63 00:02:30,902 --> 00:02:31,260 it's just part of our life rhythms .